Book Excerpt: The Facts

"This heavy sorrow is what I feel.  It is not a reflection of what I, as a Christian, believe.  I know where our son is and  I believe what God has told me about our eternal home.  Why then do I sorrow? It is because each crashing wave of grief is my flesh crying out …

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Mountains near Healy Alaska

God’s Promise For June 30

In response to a reader... "I chose this verse today because it expresses what I like to think my son may have been thinking in the moments before he left his body for Heaven.  Hans believed on Jesus as his Savior and Redeemer.  This means Hans was counting on nothing other than Jesus' victory over …

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Grief Quote #9

I look up, because that is the only place to look. Heaven is up there. Up is where my son is.

Book Excerpt: Called

We follow Him, not because he spares us from heartache (because He hasn’t); not because of anything He gives us or does for us.  We follow Him and love Him because He is Almighty God who loves us.  He knows what He is doing and we trust Him.

Grief Quote #8

In some cultures, the women wail when someone dies. But even wailing is inadequate. There are some things that cannot be halved by sharing them. Grief is one of those things.

Trust God?! Why Should I?

When you know and believe who God is and what He says about Himself, you have a rock solid foundation on which to stand when the great sea billows of life crash over you.  Knowing Him well is the best and only preparation for whatever life throws at us.

When Believers Die | John Newton’s Letters

Death is but a temporary separation. Those who are gone before us, are waiting for us. Oh! It will be a happy meeting before the throne of the Lamb--out of the reach of sin and sorrow, to meet and part no more!

God Meant It Unto Good

Our Father loves us and wants us to be in close fellowship with Him. 

Grief Brain? Me?

NOTE: I want to thank Melanie De Simone thelifeididntchoose.com for her helpful post: Grief Brain: It’s a Real Thing! Just Another Wednesday Night Prayer Meeting I was sitting in the pew waiting for Wednesday evening prayer meeting to start.  My middle son, Josef,  and I had gotten there early to set up for the video …

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Why Didn’t God Answer My Prayer?

In this post: God Answers Prayer According to His WillGod's Will May Not Align with Our WillDesiring God's WillAttitude of Trust – Streams in the Desert 5/19This Evening's Meditation: Friday, May 19, 2017 - C. H. Spurgeon A common question that comes up among bereaved parents has to do with prayer.  Specifically, the parent wants to …

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Songs in the Night

The strength of the vessel can be demonstrated only by the hurricane, and the power of the Gospel can be fully shown only when the Christian is subjected to some fiery trial. If God would make manifest the fact that “He giveth songs in the night,” He must first make it night. –William Taylor Land …

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Grief Quote #7

"Why dost thou worry thyself? What use can thy fretting serve? Thou art on board a vessel which thou couldst not steer even if the great Captain put thee at the helm, of which thou couldst not so much as reef a sail, yet thou worriest as if thou wert captain and helmsman. Oh, be quiet; God is Master!" -Madame Guyon

Memorial Day

Though my Father served in the United States Air Force, I do not come from a particularly military family. Our son, Hans, did not serve in the military, but, as a volunteer firefighter/medic, he was given firefighter's honors at his memorial service.  To be honest, I was floored.  I did not expect such an honor. …

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Still There

Blest with vict'ry and peace, may the heav'ns rescued land praise the Pow'r that hath made and preserved us a nation! Francis Scott Key Ronald Reagan: The Unknown Soldier This video features a moving speech made by President Ronald Reagan for an Unknown Soldier who was laid to rest in Washington D.C on Memorial Day, …

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Grief Quote #6

"It is our right neither to take life prematurely, nor to insist its extension beyond the mark that God has set for it. " -Loraine Boettner